Archive for June, 2010
Sounds pretty scary, don’t you think? Authentic Transformation? How many of you really know yourself and are ready to transform into that person who you are meant to be on this earth? Taking the steps necessary to live a full, authentic life is not an easy task but it sure is well worth it in the end. Do you want to be on your deathbed and not know who you really are? That you were just a clone of someone else’s beliefs and perceptions? Authenticity is a word that is individual, just as we are. We are all unique, have different personalities and all have distinctive needs, wants and values that help define who we are and who we want to become.
The process of “finding yourself” takes a lot of work, but nobody said it would be easy. Becoming the ‘real’ you and not being afraid of what others will think can scare some people away as it is sometimes easier to go with the flow of life and fit in the mould. But we are each here with a exclusive purpose. Do you know what yours is?
Take the time today to sit down and actually listen to your gut instinct and emotions. They help you start to think about you. Me, you say, why would I do that? You are the only person that will take care of you. If you don’t who will? YOU are the one that needs your full attention, love and pure happiness. Life gets so busy that we put it behind us to get to it “someday”. We are never guaranteed the next day. Living for today is all we have and finding our life and soul purpose is our mission. To find out who we are authentically without all the excess “stuff” from life and others’ perceptions/beliefs is one mission we need to accomplish. Becoming authentic doesn’t mean that just you state your “opinion” to others to prove you are authentic, it is a way of living. Not just having to be right.
We only get one chance~that’s right~ one chance to get to know the real you and to make it right.
So, what’s stopping you?
Yours in Transformation:)
Tania
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Happiness…now that is a word that so many people are trying to reach. But why is it so hard to find? We are constantly bombarded with negativity and unhappiness from outsources, that it seems almost inconceivable that we can be happy. “Life” as it so happens can seem like such a struggle on some days and for others it seems to be like that for their entire life. How do we reach that point where we say to hell with what’s happening in other people’s life and let’s take note of what’s happening in ours.
Life ~ our life ~ can be controlled only by us, it is in our control. Do you really want to live your life in another person’s mould or by someone else’s thinking? Reach inside and tap into that beautiful, courageous, joyful, happy person that you are. By controlling what we allow into our thoughts, can have a huge impact on our perceptions. Making that conscious choice to follow your intuition, choosing positive, purposeful thoughts and disallowing the negative actions of others to influence our decisions and choices which in turn decreases our happiness.
By surrounding yourself with people who uplift your spirit, encourage you to become the person you want to be and provide that loving support in all of your accomplishments, can significantly increase your daily happiness level.
What happiness is is a choice. You can either choose actions and thoughts to bring you down or lift you up. We all have that choice of happiness which is available to use continually.
So, what are you going to choose?
As you can tell by the title of this blog, the weekend at the ICDI Conference was one of extreme transformation, excitement and the true meaning of life. There was not one workshop or keynote speech that I did not learn from. With all of the knowledge that is present at a conference of that magnitude, how could you not learn something? When talking with the ladies that I went to the conference with, it seems we all took something different away from each seminar. There was tons of laughing, tears, joy, awakening, realization, meditation, past life regression, prayers and best of all it was a full weekend of ME! Taking the time for me was absolutely life enhancing. How could it not be? When we take that time for ourselves and focus on us, getting in touch with our inner being and inner choices, life just seems to take off from there. Meeting such wonderful people made the experience remarkable. Now, driving in downtown Toronto at 4 pm on a Friday, well, not so remarkable, but yet a life experience for me, as I’ve never driven in Toronto before. Let’s just say, I am returning next year to this conference but on the train! There are a bunch of others that would like to join us on returning to the conference. Let’s get a train full and work on increasing the joy, love, peace and happiness in this world!
Yours in transformation:)
Tania
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